Are you a parent who has recently separated from the father/mother of your children? A relationship breakdown is a painful time for both parents and the children of a family. It can be made even more painful when arrangements for the children cannot be agreed between both parents. Mediation is typically advisable as a means of negotiating a solution in the best interests of the children. However, in some cases mediation is unsuccessful and an application to the Family Court will need to be made. One question that may arise is where the child will reside, this is referred to as the child’s ‘residence’. Residence refers to where a child will live for the majority of the time. When a relationship breaks down, the question of residency can become a disputed matter. Residency can be resolved by agreement; however, the matter may need to be referred to the court. If you wish to receive tailored advice in relation to your individual family circumstance, please contact our team at Donnelly & Kinder Solicitors. A resident parent will be responsible for making the day-to-day decisions concerning the child. However, if the other parent holds Parental Responsibility, their input will be needed for bigger decisions relating to the upbringing of the child. Residency does not need to be court ordered, however, if there is a Residence Order in place this will define were the child lives until they reach the age of 16. In most cases there will be a resident parent, this is the parent with whom the child lives for the majority of the time. The other parent will then be considered the parent who is having ‘contact’ with the child. ‘Contact’ can range from indirect contact such as the exchange of letters, gifts, cards, text messages etc. to direct contact such as overnight stays. Contact arrangements will vary depending on the individual circumstances of each family. Contact can be court ordered by way of a Contact Order or can be simply agreed between the parents. It is also possible that a shared care arrangement can be agreed between the parents. Alternatively, a Joint Residence Order can be made by the court, which creates a shared care arrangement between the parents. If circumstances change after any court order is granted, an application can be made to ask the court to vary or discharge any order made. If the above is relevant to your circumstances, you will require a Solicitor who is both experienced and empathetic. At Donnelly & Kinder Solicitors, we tailor our advice to your own unique circumstances to achieve the best possible outcome for you and your family. We advise on all aspects of family law including Divorce, Matrimonial Agreements, the division of matrimonial finances and Ancillary Relief. Please contact Céadhra on 02890244999 or ccummings@donnellykinder.com for more information

When future planning the focus is often on the preparation of a will. The potential that one may lose capacity during their lifetime can be overlooked. Loss of mental capacity can sadly and suddenly happen at any age; the Department of Health has indicated that most people in Northern Ireland will at some point in their life either lack mental capacity or encounter persons who lack capacity. Thankfully, it is possible to nominate Attorneys who can manage your property and financial affairs should mental incapacity arise. An Enduring Power of Attorney (EPA) allows a person (the Donor) to give another person (their Attorney) authority to act on their behalf in respect of their financial affairs whilst they are still alive but lack capacity. Anyone over the age of 18 with mental capacity can create an EPA. However, if the person no longer has capacity unfortunately it is too late to create an EPA. This is why is it so important when future planning to consider an EPA. An EPA can ease financial stresses for your family at a time of emotional strain. Creating an EPA is inexpensive, yet it can save your family significant future fees, difficulties and delays. Advance planning in legal, financial and personal matters will protect your finances and your independence. Ensuring your affairs are in good order will give you peace of mind and the contentment of knowing that you have taken every action to best protect your interests and that of your family. For further information regarding any of the above or for a free, no obligation discussion please contact us by email on ccummings@donnellykinder.com or call our office on 02890 244 999.